The Ins and Outs of 2025:
What I’m Willing to Tolerate (and What I’m Not)
As we step boldly into 2025, this year’s energy feels different. It’s sharper, clearer, and unapologetically aligned. Gone are the days of bending over backward, over-explaining, or tolerating anything that doesn’t honour our growth.
This year, it’s all about boundaries, intentionality, and leaning fully into what serves us—personally, professionally, and energetically. Let’s explore the ins and outs of 2025, not as trends but through the lens of what we’re willing to accept and what we’re leaving behind.
What’s IN for 2025
1. Radical Alignment
This year is about saying YES to what lights you up and aligns with your vision. If it’s not a full-body YES, it’s a no. Period.
- In Practice: Clear contracts, intentional partnerships, and offers that reflect your highest value.
- Mantra: “If it’s not aligned, it’s not mine.”
2. Clear, Compassionate Boundaries
Boundaries aren’t walls—they’re frameworks for healthy, reciprocal relationships. This year, boundaries aren’t just encouraged; they’re celebrated.
- In Practice: Saying no without guilt, protecting your time, and honouring your energy unapologetically.
- Mantra: “Boundaries honor me and the people I serve.”
3. Simplicity Over Complexity
Overworking and overcomplicating are out. In 2025, simplicity reigns supreme. Whether it’s streamlining your offers, decluttering your calendar, or automating systems, simplicity creates spaciousness.
- In Practice: Fewer but more intentional projects, offers, and commitments.
- Mantra: “I create space for what truly matters.”
4. Collaboration with Depth
Surface-level networking is out; deep, authentic collaborations are in. Building meaningful connections with people who match your energy is what makes growth sustainable and enjoyable.
- In Practice: Collaborating only with those whose values, energy, and vision align with yours.
- Mantra: “I create with people who inspire and energize me.”
5. Celebrating Rest as a Strategy
In 2025, rest isn’t just a break—it’s a key to productivity and success. We’re done glamorizing burnout and are fully stepping into a space where rest is strategic and restorative.
- In Practice: Prioritizing downtime, sleep, and moments of stillness to recalibrate.
- Mantra: “Rest fuels my brilliance.”
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What’s OUT for 2025
1. Over-Accommodating
Gone are the days of bending over backward to meet unrealistic expectations. Over-accommodating drains your energy and leaves you feeling unappreciated.
- Out: People-pleasing, over-delivering out of fear, or neglecting your own needs.
- Replace With: Clear communication and delivering value from a place of strength.
2. Hustle Culture
We’ve officially retired the belief that more hours equal more success. Hustle culture prioritizes busywork over intentional work, and it’s simply not sustainable.
- Out: Overworking, sacrificing health, or grinding without purpose.
- Replace With: Smart, aligned work that honors your time and energy.
3. Entertaining Low-Energy Conversations
Small talk, gossip, and energy-draining conversations are officially out. In 2025, we’re curating the energy we give and receive with intention.
- Out: Unnecessary venting or giving your energy to the wrong spaces.
- Replace With: Purposeful conversations and spaces that inspire growth.
4. Unclear Expectations
Ambiguity creates frustration and misalignment. This year, clarity in your business, relationships, and communication is a non-negotiable.
- Out: Vague boundaries, unclear goals, or mismatched collaborations.
- Replace With: Directness, transparency, and clear alignment in all areas.
5. Doing It All Alone
Soloing everything is the fast track to overwhelm. Asking for support isn’t a weakness—it’s wisdom.
- Out: Taking on more than you can handle or avoiding delegation.
- Replace With: Building a support system, hiring help, or collaborating with others to create ease.
2025 Is the Year of Bold Choices
This year, it’s all about choosing what serves you and releasing what doesn’t. It’s about standing firm in your boundaries, trusting your vision, and leading your business and life with clarity, confidence, and alignment.
The question isn’t just what are you creating?—it’s who are you becoming while creating it?
In 2025, let’s honour our energy, protect our peace, and step fully into the version of ourselves that we’ve always been meant to be.
What are you no longer willing to tolerate this year? Let’s start the conversation in the comments.